There is a Little Bit of "Gold Digging" in Most Women Today: Find Out Why

This article explains the reason why most women behave they way they do in today's society. And why they tend to chose certain males over others. http://bit.ly/2ytUGU

Learn How to Control Your Anxiety Approach
One of the most difficult things a man has to overcome is the fear of approaching to a female and talk to her. This articles explains what is the anxiety approach and how to overcome it.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/1585563/learn_how_to_control_your_anxiety_approach.html

Pick-Up Artist Community Finds Easy Targets in Buenos Aires
Following the hype of the popularity of the VH1 show "The Pick Up Artist," a new light has been shed on the previous underground practice of wooing women as a career choice. Here is my experience.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/691137/pickup_artist_community_finds_easy.html

The secret to engage in a conversation with a woman!

The majority of the time most problematic issue a man faces when meeting a woman is the approach. Most men have no problems going from the rapport build-up, to the courting phase. Nevertheless, the main problem most men face when they are “sarging,” is that they don’t know how to approach women!

One thing it makes sense to me is an article I saw from the TSB Magazine that talks about approaching techniques. 83 Pick Up Lines That Make it Easy to Talk to Girls. The article talks about the do’s and don’ts of the “social intelligent man.”

• Begin a conversation in a way that is friendly and non threatening
• Skillfully introduce topics that quickly build rapport
• Talk in a way that shows that he is of high value
• Never give the impression that he is trying to impress her
• Never give the impression that he is intimated by her

Another thing that makes sense to me in the article, was that when you force a women to make an immediate decision as of to whether or not the man is right for her, 99% of the time she will decline! I think that this situation happens with every gender.

Men have a black and white mentality while women as a gray mentality. We think in ether yes or no terms, while women come with a “maybe.” When approaching a female, the best thing to do is to approach all of them with the same mind frame; “maybe.” The goal is to allow both of you to express yourselves as naturally as possible.

How can you both express as naturally as possible? For starters, as men, one will have to go in to the approach knowing that you will have an immediate objection. It is a normal human reaction, when someone is approached by a stranger, people tend to react defensively and give objections. The point is that when a male stranger approaches a female, there’s a natural reaction for the female to feel unease, unprotected. Most men don’t know how to react to that particular behavior.

You get what I called the “slippery fish” syndrome. One tries to grabbed them and they slipped away. Just like when you’re trying to catch a fish in a pond with your bare hands. The only way I know how to approach in a non-threatening tone to someone you will like to meet is by asking an open ended question, or come up with a statement that has nothing to do with what you are doing at that particular moment.

Open ended questions are open to possibilities. The goal to open ended questions is to engage in conversation. You are trying to make your target express her opinions and views about any simple “NON-THREATENING” subject. Statements that you make that has nothing to do with what both of you are doing at the time, are intended to work the same way.

Most men don’t know how to approach women. However, as men, one can be creative and make a few open ended questions of your own, as well as some good statements to engage into conversations with women, and that is the secret. You’ll be surprise what you can do. Most importantly, be yourself, come up with your own game, your own lines, practice makes perfect. I suggest not to copy anyone style. Gather the positive, and reject the negative from any style. Experiment with different lines. Until, you come up with your own ones. And always remember to document what works so you can be able to use it again. Be authentic!

What worked for me on a "Close Kiss"

      Here is what worked for me on a "Close Kiss".  I tried going for what the book "The Game" was saying about you should asked for the kiss. I waited for the girl to looked at me, all romantic and I thought she was prepared, for me to kiss her. But it did not happen the way I expected.

      At the moment she was looking at me, I asked her "Would you like to kiss me?" And she said "No."  Then I asked her "Why not? I mean, it's just a little kiss."  She said to me "I don't know you that well."  My response to her objection was: "You don't need to know a person that much for just a little kiss."  And then I added: "Lets do something." I pointed at my nose with my finger and said to her "Kiss me!" At that particular moment she was going to kiss my nose, I moved my chin forward and kiss her lips.  That broke the ice.  After that, she was all over me, kissing! Cool, isn't it?  Two moves in one. Yes!

Neg the Target

 

Neg The Target 2

Alright here is a better explanation on Neging the Target. I hope people out there like it. Neg the Target  by Stunpals.com

Original Lyrics

Neg the target yes its true
Then talk to her friends you have to be smooth
DHV don’t look needy
That’s what you got to do to get the HB
And when she speaks say excuse me
You’re interrupting have some patience please
Is she always like this where’s her off switch
How do you roll with someone like this...

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Maxim Magazine (Nov 2008 Issue)

The November 2008 Issue of Maxim Magazine had an article named "Build a Better Trap". It talks about 7 ploys about what females said what have worked for guys when dealing with and picking up gal's.  The seven Ploys the article talks about were:

Ploy No. 1: Give her the "Neg"

Ploy No. 2: Have a routine

Ploy No. 3: Disarm your competition

Ploy No. 4: Call her right away

Ploy No. 5: Dress like Cock

Ploy No. 6: Hit on her friend

Ploy No. 7: Make her work for it

In most of this ploys I have something to say. There are some of them I would agree with, but most of them I would disagree with the authors findings. Starting with the first ploy:

Ploy No. 1: Give her the "Neg":

In this ploy the author says that every women that was interviewed despise the trick.

I can understand why every women despise the tactic of it.  In my opinion the purpose of the "Neg" is to make the woman uncomfortable with your comments.  I think that even if you're making your comments feel uncomfortable to her, she will stick to your comments.  Even if she despise your comments and find you a jerk.

What you are trying to accomplish with the "negging" is to force the target to think about you.  I once read in one of the Donald Trump books that "bad publicity is better than no publicity at all!" And in here you're using the same principle.

In my opinion, I would not try to offend the girl that I'm targeting, rather than that, I try to make her feel some what uncomfortable with my comments towards here, and it has worked for me.

Remember, this is a cat and mouse game. When you "neg" the girl out you're trying to play hard to catch.  You're sending signals to the girl for her to play with you. And if you're attracted to her she will play along. If not you're out of luck!

And on that note, beware sometimes girls use their looks to scare off the majority of the guys for some reason.  Leaving only those who dare to approach them; the AMOG's

Ploy No. 2: Have a routine:

The author explains in the article that having a routine might not work.  And that humor when it's spontaneous can work.

On that note, I would disagree with the author because for starters, how does the author would expect to approach to a group of people, if one is not prepare and don't know what to say after the word "Hi".

Realistically, not all the guys are humorous, much less are spontaneous. So, are this guys doom to be alone for ever.  I don't think so!

Being spontaneous with something that you think is funny maybe grounds for an insult on an other persons circle of friends.  I think one have to follow a protocol. I'm not saying that one have to follow a routine over and over again, because people will eventually catch up to it.  Nevertheless, by using the same protocol, the same concept with different openers just might do the trick. See "How to work a room" by Susan Roane. And also see Susan Roane Blog for more on that topic.

Ploy No. 3: Disarm the competition

The author says that is good to disarm the competition when picking up girls.  I would say sometimes is good, and sometimes is a very bad idea!

For instance, if you're going to have a girl that she will always gets you in trouble expecting you to get her out of it, I would think it twice to be near her. In the same token, if you're saving her from someone she's obviously not into, then I would say maybe.  If you're saving her from her boyfriend's ass-whipping, then I will say "Stay Away!"  Nine times out of ten, when you intervene in someone else relationship as a third party, she might tell you to "bug off!"

Ploy No. 4: Call her right away

I totally agree with this ploy from the author. I would not waste time to call her either.

Ploy No. 5: Dress Like Cock

The author stress that is not convenient to dress like a "peacock."

I would definitely not go with the author's opinion on this ploy because one has to stand out some how!  I'm not saying to go ahead and dress like a clown.  However, one needs to be able to stand out one's uniqueness.  One needs to create it's own avatar.  A diamond is rare not because is a rock among rocks, it's rear because it's a rock that stand out.

Ploy No. 6: Hit on her friend

The author says that "hitting" on a girls friend is not a good idea. Because they always go with the "Bros before hos" concept.  The author also say that "no girl ever wants to feel like she was the second choice." However, one needs to understand that when you are picking up girls you are working with attraction here.  That means that you always will have 50% chance that the girl you're "hitting" on may or may not LIKE YOU! You are always playing the numbers when it come to girls. Some girls will like you and some girls wont. That is fact of life!. Is there is any type of attraction in your "target", she will find a way to get to know you.

There is an other old adage that says: "Treat the waitress like a lady and the lady like a waitress to win the lady's heart!"

Ploy No. 7: Make her work for it

Finally, the author talks about that you need to let the girl work for it. That statement can be no further out from the truth.  No girls want to be considered boring or weak. And I use that to my advantage all the time.