Find out, why must men fear commitment and main reasons some commit to unappealing women?

Nowadays, a good number of men developed fear of commitment. They not only fear commitment, guys commit when they have to; specially, the divorced ones. Most single men love their freedom; the option to be with many unique partners. Nevertheless, they do think—not too often, though—about their risk of being sexually with ill partners. This could be steady reasons why guys are afraid of commitment. Women have to understand that what attracts men about them are their looks and sexuality, not their love to cherish commitment. It is a sad but, ruthless truth. Most men will tend to be with women that weight the same or better than they do. Moreover, men tend to be with women that are as attractive as, or better than they are. Different causes trigger reasons you see men dating less-attractive women.

Mostly, the main basis some guys are in this individual relationship is when at one point their partner was the most alluring woman to them, and subsequently she let that go. She stopped caring about herself. This girl used to have big boobs, tight butt, and a lean weight. Nevertheless, kids appeared and she forgot roughly her figure. She began focusing on the kids, worrying more about her kids, then on herself. Therefore, as an act of kindness and love, these guys have learned to like their mate; not because she has a great body, but because she is the mom of their kids.

The other cause guys are in this presently particular relationship is due to the fact of one simple reason: money. Some guys are willing to invest their time with an unappealing woman because of her money. Since, women love to be court; unappealing women are not the exception. These men can be remarkably deceitful; they enchant these girls with superfluous stories, just to live out of their marriage commitment. Another reason why guys are committed to dull women are because of their low self-esteem. These guys believe they cannot have sexual relations with any other additional women to the one they currently have. Nearly everyone of them would rather stay intimate with an unappealing woman: instead of settling with a desirable, but an asexual woman.

Most men are always able to commit for one obvious reason: sex. There are no exceptions about it! Men love sex, no matter how sentimental, or attached men can be to women. If men do not get sex in their relationship, they will contemplate getting it in another place. That does not mean they will leave their relationship, but they will to it, in one way or another. In addition, it does not mean that they ought to cheat on their partner, neither. However, guys are able to find a way to satisfy their need somehow. Take sex out of men's livelihood, and they can be particularly creative as well as very aggressive: when they are used to having sex.

Depending on their age, their vitality and marital status, men will start shifting needs. Mostly, these shifts happen to most divorced-single men. They have already carried a negative baggage with their old marriage. Men fear commitment and they do not want to get into another chaos. However, they do wish for companionship. Sex is men's driving push to mate. Nonetheless, it is second in divorced men's need, while they are in a subsequent relationship. Nearly all divorce men feel alone, and they will like to have a company. On the other hand, they will think twice, if they have to sacrifice sex for it. Meaning, they will prefer to have a single healthy sex life, instead of suffering in a relationship with a nonsexual partner. Yet, neither they are likely to sacrifice money for sex, unless they are wealthy. It is unlikely that they planned to get into a commitment along with a woman that is coming across as wanting to live out of them, when they are in a financial stroke.

This depends most on men economic status. If men are financially stable, they may be more inclined to get a better sexual and more attractive woman; then if they are not financially firm. The more financially stable they feel, the better-looking woman they will find; however, the less they wish women to participate into their business. The rock conclusion on the way men feel regarding commitment is that they can be faintly shallow. Usually, they will never compromise sex for beauty, but some of them, particularly compromise sex, for money.

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The secret to engage in a conversation with a woman!

The majority of the time most problematic issue a man faces when meeting a woman is the approach. Most men have no problems going from the rapport build-up, to the courting phase. Nevertheless, the main problem most men face when they are “sarging,” is that they don’t know how to approach women!

One thing it makes sense to me is an article I saw from the TSB Magazine that talks about approaching techniques. 83 Pick Up Lines That Make it Easy to Talk to Girls. The article talks about the do’s and don’ts of the “social intelligent man.”

• Begin a conversation in a way that is friendly and non threatening
• Skillfully introduce topics that quickly build rapport
• Talk in a way that shows that he is of high value
• Never give the impression that he is trying to impress her
• Never give the impression that he is intimated by her

Another thing that makes sense to me in the article, was that when you force a women to make an immediate decision as of to whether or not the man is right for her, 99% of the time she will decline! I think that this situation happens with every gender.

Men have a black and white mentality while women as a gray mentality. We think in ether yes or no terms, while women come with a “maybe.” When approaching a female, the best thing to do is to approach all of them with the same mind frame; “maybe.” The goal is to allow both of you to express yourselves as naturally as possible.

How can you both express as naturally as possible? For starters, as men, one will have to go in to the approach knowing that you will have an immediate objection. It is a normal human reaction, when someone is approached by a stranger, people tend to react defensively and give objections. The point is that when a male stranger approaches a female, there’s a natural reaction for the female to feel unease, unprotected. Most men don’t know how to react to that particular behavior.

You get what I called the “slippery fish” syndrome. One tries to grabbed them and they slipped away. Just like when you’re trying to catch a fish in a pond with your bare hands. The only way I know how to approach in a non-threatening tone to someone you will like to meet is by asking an open ended question, or come up with a statement that has nothing to do with what you are doing at that particular moment.

Open ended questions are open to possibilities. The goal to open ended questions is to engage in conversation. You are trying to make your target express her opinions and views about any simple “NON-THREATENING” subject. Statements that you make that has nothing to do with what both of you are doing at the time, are intended to work the same way.

Most men don’t know how to approach women. However, as men, one can be creative and make a few open ended questions of your own, as well as some good statements to engage into conversations with women, and that is the secret. You’ll be surprise what you can do. Most importantly, be yourself, come up with your own game, your own lines, practice makes perfect. I suggest not to copy anyone style. Gather the positive, and reject the negative from any style. Experiment with different lines. Until, you come up with your own ones. And always remember to document what works so you can be able to use it again. Be authentic!

What worked for me on a "Close Kiss"

      Here is what worked for me on a "Close Kiss".  I tried going for what the book "The Game" was saying about you should asked for the kiss. I waited for the girl to looked at me, all romantic and I thought she was prepared, for me to kiss her. But it did not happen the way I expected.

      At the moment she was looking at me, I asked her "Would you like to kiss me?" And she said "No."  Then I asked her "Why not? I mean, it's just a little kiss."  She said to me "I don't know you that well."  My response to her objection was: "You don't need to know a person that much for just a little kiss."  And then I added: "Lets do something." I pointed at my nose with my finger and said to her "Kiss me!" At that particular moment she was going to kiss my nose, I moved my chin forward and kiss her lips.  That broke the ice.  After that, she was all over me, kissing! Cool, isn't it?  Two moves in one. Yes!

Neg the Target

 

Neg The Target 2

Alright here is a better explanation on Neging the Target. I hope people out there like it. Neg the Target  by Stunpals.com

Original Lyrics

Neg the target yes its true
Then talk to her friends you have to be smooth
DHV don’t look needy
That’s what you got to do to get the HB
And when she speaks say excuse me
You’re interrupting have some patience please
Is she always like this where’s her off switch
How do you roll with someone like this...

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